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Saturday, December 13, 2025

Advent 2025 : day fourteen

 


Tomorrow – the third Sunday of Advent – we will hold our annual Nativity at St Nicholas’ church. We have invited everyone to come dressed as their favourite character from the story – it does not matter whether we have one Mary or fifteen (the Gospels are full of women called Mary) because there is room for everyone.

Nativities – retellings of the events surrounding the birth of Jesus, usually pitched for children and popular in primary schools – remain reasonably familiar, and poorly presented. Famously, they involve Mary & Joseph turning up at Bethlehem on the very night she will go into labour, desperately going from inn to inn seeking a room, being turned away by innkeeper after innkeeper, until a kindly one, deeply apologetic at having nothing better to offer, let’s them sleep in his stable. Nothing could be further from what the Gospels actually portray.

Jesus is born in the home of a relative of Joseph, who, some time earlier, has returned to Bethlehem with his bride Mary, from her father’s home in Nazareth. In keeping with custom, a newly married couple (that is, having completed the legally binding contract of betrothal) would expect to live with the bride’s parents for the first twelve months of their life together – Joseph may well have been working for his father-in-law by way of a dowry – before the bride was taken to live in the home of the groom’s parents (marked by what we would recognise as a wedding feast). There is not space in the room allocated to the couple – Luke uses a term we might translate as ‘guest room’ and definitely should not translate as ‘inn’ – for Mary to give birth, attended by female relatives and town midwives, and so Jesus is born in the main, shared living space. He is then washed and wrapped tightly in bands of linen – all he has known so far is the confines of the womb – and laid in a stone depression hollowed out to form a manger in the dividing point between the lower end of the home, where animals slept at night, and the upper end, where the humans slept. Luke makes a point of describing he manger in detail, perhaps because it is a relevant detail for the shepherds (possibly a particular manger in a home known to them) but also because he is foreshadowing the stone shelf in the tomb where Jesus, wrapped in linen strips, will be laid following his crucifixion. The whole town of Bethlehem – the ‘city of David’ – rejoice that God has at last restored the fortunes of the house and line of David – though their joy will turn to sorrow within a couple of years, when Herod orders the massacre of every male child of two years and under in and around Bethlehem.

This, then, is a story set firmly in history, in the history and cultural practices and hopes and expectations of a particular community. It is a story of hope and of joy, albeit a story that will not run smoothly, because there will be powerful others who contest the story.

And the invitation is, where do you find yourself in the story? Not as a shepherd or as townsfolk or relatives, but where does the story resonate with your life – lived in a very different culture?

Where will the God who broke in there and then, break into your life here and now?

 

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