I am regularly approached
by parents wishing to have their children baptised. Alongside this, I’ve been
marking papers written by ordinands (trainee vicars) on the pastoral (i.e. responding to human need) and missiological (i.e. pertaining to the mandate, message and mission of the church) challenges and opportunities presented by those who are seeking to engage with
the Church for baptisms, with reference to the spiritual, social and
psychological dimensions involved. And so, among other things, I’ve been
thinking about the baptismal vows and what it might mean to live them out.
At baptism we make certain vows, either for ourselves or on
behalf of our children. These vows concern a turning away, and a turning
towards. In other words, a change of orientation, or perspective, a metanoia or change of mind. Though there
is some variation in wording, the vows may be as follows:
Do you turn away from sin? I do.
Do you reject evil? I do.
Do you turn to Christ as
Saviour? I
do.
Do you trust in him as Lord? I do.
Sin is largely
self-centredness, and we all know what it is like to wrestle with that. In the
context of being a parent—the context in which many people approach me
regarding baptism—I love my children and genuinely want to be a good father to
them…but when they want my attention when it is fixed on something ‘more
important’ or ‘more pressing’ (such as the tv drama I am trying to watch, or
the facebook feed I am scrolling down, or work, or…) they may get brushed
aside, until the day comes when I want them to talk to me but they have learnt
that whatever they are doing is more important. Or, again, I know that our love
of fossil fuels and plastics is destroying the planet…but I love the
convenience of electricity and do not really want to reduce my habits of consumption.
While we can recognise sin in our own lives, vowing to turn away from sin,
embracing this as habitual behaviour, is far harder.
Evil is largely the
absence of love. Human beings traffick other human beings, or enslave them to
drug addiction, or kill strangers, because of an absence of loving our
neighbour as we love ourselves. And it is easy to paint certain people as evil,
somehow different from the rest of us. And yet, we all know the impact of unresisted
evil in creating division, as certain groups of people are dehumanised and the
call goes up to strip them of rights, and responsibilities. But to reject evil
is an active stance: to resist and resist and resist, in how we think and what
we say and what we do. And again, it is far easier to recognise evil than it is
to commit ourselves to embracing the rejection of evil.
To turn to Christ as
Saviour is, firstly, to recognise that we need saving and cannot save
ourselves. And in the immediate context of these vows, that we need saving from
sin and from our complicity in evil. I reckon most people I know recognise that
they need saving from something that, at root, comes back to sin and evil, and
that they cannot save themselves. It may be loneliness, the consequence of the
breakdown of relationships into isolated individualism (and, hence, we recognise
that individualism is not the answer, and so go looking for salvation in a
friendship group). It may be cancer, a complex consequence of our collective modern
lives including what we put into our food and our air. From a Christian
perspective, I would suggest that running is a poor saviour (I need only get
injured to be cast back out into the darkness where there is weeping and
gnashing of teeth; or, I may become addicted to running, and use it as an
excuse to avoid relationships that need attending to) but that it is a great
means by which Christ is at work to save me. Or, again, medical science is a
poor saviour (people still die; and even if we eradicate all cancers, we’ll
only die of something else) but also a great means by which Christ may work to
bring salvation to some. But the baptismal vow grounds salvation in Christ, as
the only dependable source and completion of my salvation.
And on that basis,
we come to the final vow, to trust him as Lord. That is to say that he is over
all things, at work despite sin and even in the face of evil—that he opposes
and will ultimately overcome—to bring about salvation not only for me and for
my children but for self-destructive humanity and the tragically scarred
natural environment. Such a belief is not passive, but, like turning away and
rejecting and turning to, trusting calls us to step into the vow we have made.
To respond to his voice, that drives out fear and calls forth courage from deep
within us, courage we never knew was there. To trust the good purposes of one
who is greater than our own self-centredness, the endemic lack of love of
neighbour, and our spiritual, social and psychological need for salvation is a
daily act of resistance, of refusal to go with the flow.
It should come as no
surprise that this is what parents want for their children. At the same time,
these vows become so much harder to live out when we attempt to do so on our
own. God knows, the church is an imperfect community, but we live out our vows
imperfectly together.